F.R.I.E.N.D.S

Recently I've been having some troubles in the friend department and I thought I'd share it with you all tonight.

--- Firstly I'd like to start off with a little disclaimer, I will not be naming any names in this, if you are a friend of mine and are reading this this and think I may be writing about you all I have to say is that; if the shoes fits, by all means, wear it. ---


To start off over the last few months, some friends of mine have decided that popularity is much more important than hanging out with myself and a couple of other girls.
During this, these friends have been ignoring, leaving myself and a couple of my other friends/going off secretly at school, going places and making it out to be a huge secret.
Honestly I wouldn't care if you were going to Melbourne, I go all there all the time, but why feel the need to make a big deal out it and make it such a private/secret thing when all you were doing was shopping?.

Lesson: Do not make you're friends feel so down graded to the point were they feel like they're not worth a simple "hello".


Also, over the last few weeks I been working on my friendship with someone I used to be really close with a couple of years ago, unfortunately I left town for a year in year 8 and after moving back things just weren't the same.This person and I used to talk on and off for the past year and a half that I've been back.
I opened up to him a few weeks ago telling him that I miss him, and that not being friends with him anymore sucks and that it makes me sad. He said he felt the same too but sitting here at the moment I feel as though maybe he just said it back to make me feel happy or so he didn't hurt my feelings?.

That paragraph is probably weird, cringy, or whatever.. Maybe I care too much for this person? I don't know. Sometimes I think that maybe if I hadn't of moved away for that one year, would things still be as they were? Would they be better?
If you're reading this (you probably aren't) I meant it when I said I miss you.
I know you probably mean more to me than I do to you but... Oh well.


Some of you may know (if you follow me on twitter) that I have these friends in Melbourne.. And a lot of them!. These friends, I swear, I don't know how I became so lucky, but I'm so glad and thankful to have you girls in my life, you're like a second home to me. You're everything I've ever wanted and a whole bunch more.
All the gigs and concerts we go to, all the bands and musicians we've met and hung out with - who would've thought those things could happen to us?
I love all the shopping trips we do and the cute little dates we've been on and the hotel hopping that seems to just be a normal thing to do now.

Also, I kinda have friends scattered all over Australia and the world.
Most of my other friends live in Sydney, I can't wait to come and meet some of you later this year and then again in February for two rounds of concert goodness and stalking if I can be bothered leaving my hotel room to run around the place I hope to call home soon.

I know I said I wouldn't name any names but this is in good text, Astrid if you're reading this, I love you oodles and oodles, you're honestly one of the best people I know.

Today's post has been all over the place but hey, I posted something I finally happy with.

- Imogen Louise .xx

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